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Hey readers! It’s been a while, how are you?
I’ve always had trouble finding the right guy. I tend to chose guys who don’t have good intentions. It’s not that I try to find these guys, but some how I meet a lot.
I think my problem is..I like attention. I feel good when I get compliments..who doesn’t? Sometimes I end up falling in to a trap. The guys I’ve met have only wanted one thing from me.
Recently, I met a guy. He seemed nice and he was cute. We started talking. He gave me compliments and said I had a nice personality. I thought that meant he kind of liked me.
Turns out..he just wanted to have sex with me. The more we talked..the more that became clear.
I tried to ask him, if we would ever be a couple, or if we would ever have something real. He said no. I was hurt. Very hurt. I was starting to like a guy who had no intentions of liking me.
He soon straight out told me..he just wanted sex. He didn’t want to have a relationship. To him..I was annoying. He told me I was super annoying, even though..previously he told me I wasn’t. Was everything he said a lie? Or did he change his opinion on me because I wouldn’t give him what he truly wanted? I don’t think I’ll ever find that out. We don’t talk anymore.
Honestly..I was kind of heartbroken. I felt as if I had done something wrong. Something was wrong with me.
It’s not me. It’s not my fault. I think a lot of girls struggle with the fact that some guys put pressure on them to do what the guy wants.
If you’re going through a similar experience. It is not you! You aren’t to blame for them not liking you. If you don’t want to share your body with them, then that doesn’t mean anything. It’s your body, not theirs. Don’t let them trick you.
Of course, it hurts. It makes you think that you aren’t enough. It makes you think something is wrong with you, when all of a sudden they don’t want anything to do with you anymore.
I think we just have to remind ourselves, that we are worthy. We don’t need validation from anyone. We don’t need attention from the wrong people. Love yourself! Stay true to yourself!
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